Brain Hacks, Mindfulness

Anchor

Another rather wonderful mindfulness exercise: dropping anchor.
Basically this is a technique to assist you in releasing yourself from your everyday automatic pilot. It’s about focusing on your physical self in that particular moment, so you are able to fully implement mindfulness breathing and observation strategies.
It is very simple. You begin by planting both feet on the floor. Once you attain stability, begin tuning into the sensations in your body. Notice your legs and the feel of the floor, what they are touching, what are they connected to, everything including the heat within your own body. Slowly work your way up noticing your breath, your chest rising and falling. Feel the air come in and then out.
Take the time to really be in your body and to enjoy the sensation of being alive. Observe your body. Anchor yourself in the present moment and just breathe. Then start observing the things around you. The way your body interacts with these things.
I’m finding it to be a very useful tool in calming myself down. Distracting myself from any momentary stress.
Brain Hacks, Mindfulness, Minimalism

Evening Rhythms

Attempting to orchestrate an evening rhythm is no easy task.

If you happened upon my previous blog post about Brooke Mcalarys mindfulness book “Destination Simple” you will understand the exercise I am referring to. But perhaps not the frustration I felt in being unable to undertake it successfully.
The problem is that I get it into my head that everything needs to be worked out immediately, with immediately conveniently being right before bedtime. But the urgency I feel in needing to deal with these “issues” does not represent or correspond with the actual necessities of the moment. It’s not a part of the flow I so dutifully constructed in accordance to the book.

In my search for a solution I came across a really useful trick called allocating worry time. It does take a bit of practice (a lot of practice), but it’s completely worth it because it does work.
So basically you want to begin by taking some deep breaths. Focusing on your inhale and exhale, on the rise and fall of your chest as you breath in and out. Basically trying to relax your body and to let go of your physical tension.
When your mind starts to think about this or that, when you start planning or obsessing, you need to imagine a red light. And you want to tell yourself to stop. You might want to say this out loud or just in your head. But you need to tell yourself to stop.
Say to yourself, “Now is the time to sleep. You will worry about this for an hour tomorrow, at 2 pm.”
The exact time you choose to schedule in your worry is up to you, but it is very important to be specific. Be sure to specify not only the exact time, but also how long you plan to worry about it. Then go back to your relaxation exercises. The moment any of those thoughts come back, just run through the exercise again. See the red light, tell yourself to stop. Now is not the time, tomorrow at 2 pm is the time and you will have a whole hour to figure it out.
The most important thing though, is to follow through with the scheduling. The next day at 2 pm, or whenever you have designated to do it, sit down and think about whatever it was that you were so focused on the night before. Spend that time planning, organizing and worrying about it.
That is it. That’s the trick. It just takes practice and consistency (my two least favourite words) and you can incorporate it into both your evening and morning routines for ease of use.

Brain Hacks, Mindfulness, Minimalism

Slice of Life

Destination Simple: Everyday rituals for a slower life” by Brooke Mcalary is a slight and rather inconspicuous book, brimming with masterful mindfulness exercises. Its key premise is that by intentionally manipulating your daily habits, you can wield these into viable rituals and what is referred to in the book as rhythms. Thus slowing down and simplifying your life.

She prescribes seven solutions or exercises to undertake each day to attain this lofty goal:

  1. Single-tasking: Complete focus on one task.
  2. Unplugging: Basically no electronics for 15 minutes.
  3. Emptying your mind: A mindfulness technique to relive your brain of nagging thoughts.
  4. Three point to do list: Making to do lists containing only the three most important tasks to complete.
  5. Gratitude: Listing 5 things you are grateful for.
  6. Morning routine: Developing a morning ritual of various tasks (both necessary and voluntary).
  7. Evening routine: The same as the morning routine but after dinner.

By incorporating one or all of these exercises, a simplified rhythm can be achieved. Many of these concepts and exercises seemed quite familiar, as they are essentially mindfulness devices. However their benefit lies in their practical application to a rather turbulent and typical home life. Each exercise is brief (except perhaps for numbers 6 and 7), and serves as both an organisational and reflective tool. They provide you with a method to organise yourself, that is simple and effective. All in all, a very helpful little guide.

“Learn to enjoy the slice of life you experience, and life turns out to be wonderful.” – Leo Babauta

Brain Hacks, Mindfulness

Re-programming my central operating system: the brain

Mindfulness is all about focusing on your current experience. It’s training your brain to be in the moment, to observe the moment and detach yourself from negative responses and ways of thinking. It’s basically pulling the brakes on your automatic pilot and letting you assess the situation from a calmer place. At least that’s my round about way of describing it.

The 5 Keys to mindfulness:

  1. Observation
  2. Description
  3. Immersion
  4. Non judgement
  5. Focus

Observation requires you to shift from thinking mode into sensing mode. A good way to do this is to close your eyes and focus on your breathing, your body, any physical sensations you feel (like the feel of your clothes on your skin) and so on, going through all your senses so that you are fully experiencing the moment. It’s as simple as just allowing yourself to actually notice the stimuli around you.

Description is then putting adjectives to those observations. To do so you have to really try to notice their nuances. For example, right now when I close my eyes I can hear the rain outside my window and the hum of the laptop. Some adjectives I can apply to these observations are gentle, quiet, light, soothing and soft. Ultimately you will want to start using this technique on your feelings. Observing the emotions you’re experiencing and then putting adjectives to them can help clarify your feelings.

Immersion is participating fully and experiencing the whole situation without excluding things. It’s allowing yourself to feel your emotions, all of them. Anger, frustration, boredom, listlessness, hunger, or whatever the case may be. It’s about noticing every component of whatever you are doing. It’s not easy because when you try to do it, you end up realizing just how much stimuli and information your brain automatically tunes out.

Non judgment is the hardest and easiest thing to do. But it’s amazing. Mostly because it allows you to identify your sensitivities. Basically you are trying to maintain an accepting attitude towards your experience. Accepting observations and descriptions without evaluating them. That is an extremely easy task when it comes to things you don’t care about. Being non judgmental about the sound of rain is simple, but when it comes to a more sensitive issue simple it is not. Someone once said “we are our own worst critics” and when it comes to observing and describing your feelings without judgment, that inner critic is in bedlam. Mindfulness asks you to silence that inner critic. Give him a nice cup of tea and a book to read, leaving you to experience the moment without judging it as wrong or right, without controlling or avoiding it.

Focus is the fifth and final key. Come to think of it, there may be more than five. Oh well. Focusing on one thing at a time is another important aspect to this process. Unfortunately random thoughts will distract you from your observations, and that’s completely normal. Especially when you’re just starting and even if you’ve been practicing mindfulness for years. It’s your thinking mode trying to switch back on by overriding the current system. So focus, be aware when this happens and switch it back to sensing mode. It’s no big deal.

So this is what I’m doing. Or at least what I’m trying to do. I figure re-programming my brain is my best option for future bliss. It will be interesting to see how self help books touch upon mindfulness concepts and tools, and whether they identify their doctrines as a form of mindfulness at all. I suppose I have some reading to do.